On a trip to Rome, Italy recently I was in need of a sex shop. I had a date with a gorgeous kinky Italian man and was in dire need of a butt plug for the occasion. Why? That’s simple: I wanted to surprise him with it in on our date…because that’s the kind of good little slut that I am.

I was a little worried being so close to The Vatican that I wouldn’t find such a sinful store. Low and behold I found a sex shop in the city of Rome called Zou Zou. It was a higher end style kinky shop down what appeared to be a deserted alleyway. I was intrigued! I was sure I had gotten the directions wrong as I walked the 30 minutes to get to the store. But I found the beautiful storefront after soldiering on and trusting my handy dandy directions.

After browsing the selection of plugs they had, I chose a beautiful piece made by Rosebuds. This beauty is made of black aluminum and shines like nothing I’ve ever seen before.

A note on metal over silicone: I prefer metal over the traditional silicone as the silicone (even though people swear that it doesn’t hold odors and smells) absolutely holds odors and smells. The last few plugs I’ve owned have ended up in the trash after a few uses. I know what you’re thinking, wash the damn thing Sindy! I do and I have but I refuse to have to spend more time cleaning my butt plug then I do my own ass before someone eats it out. If the hole can be efficiently cleansed faster than the toy going inside it…I quit! Ok, rant over!

First, let me just say how stunningly beautiful the Swarovski Crystal is in this thing. Holy shit does it sparkle! I wish I didn’t have to conceal it’s beauty in my underwear and could really bend over and let people compliment me on my new jewelry but somehow I think that wouldn’t fare very well in this city…so in the plug went.

The metal is always cool, so insertion can be a bit…chilling to say the least. I would recommend holding it between your hands for 30 seconds or so before inserting to warm it up a little if you’re not too fond of cold.

I like to use a little bit of lube for insertions because my asshole is tighter then a victorian corset, so I always need a little help getting it in. I purchased Pjur Analyse Me! Relaxing Silicone Anal Glide, something I’ve never used before. I thought I’d give it the ol’ college try since my stud that evening was well endowed and well, perhaps that “relaxing part” would be put to good use (ouch!).

I applied the lube and used my bare fingers the ensure the plug was fulling coated. Ok, so that might’ve been a mistake as my fingers started to get tingly and numb shortly there after. I wasn’t upset by that, in fact, it made me immediately think – I wonder if I masturbated with these two numb fingers, if it would feel like a stranger was doing it? *Slap* Back to the review Sindy, geez!

Ok where was I? So I insert it and it’s pretty light, but you can definitely feel it’s presence. I wore it around while I got ready for my date. It’s presence definitely got me excited as I was always aware that it was there.

So….I bet you wanna know how it went? Okay, okay I’ll tell you. Twist my arm why don’t you!!!!

My hung sexy Italian man has me on all fours for inspection when he notices the plug and presses on it saying, “Good Girl! You will leave this in until I take it out, understand?” “Yes Sir!” I replied and I obeyed. That was the exact response I was hoping for. Investment in said butt plug has paid off! Worth every single dime!!!

I could feel my ass tighten down on the plug as he entered me. Having both holes filled is always a true delight for me. The pressure and friction from both his penis and the plug felt utterly amazing.

When it was finally time to remove the plug and replace it with his cock, the plug was easily removed as the jewel end is easy to find and remove with one hand.

An added bonus: this butt plug can be set aside with the jewel side down on a flat surface if you care to reinsert later and want to minimize any other surfaces touching the plug. It’s also great for minimizing the amount of lube or bodily fluids touching any of your other surfaces.

Overall, I love this butt plug. I can’t wait till I get back state side and use this baby during some sensation play or while I’m being flogged. I’m sure it’s going to be one of my favs moving forward.